[0.000 --> 6.240] My dear elegant ladies, there are certain essential body language secrets that I really advise [6.240 --> 12.400] you to know, especially if you want to have an affluent man and the competition is slightly [12.400 --> 18.320] tougher to get one, however it's not impossible. But with these body language secrets, you will [18.320 --> 24.400] definitely have an advantage. So let's find out what they are. Ladies, have you noticed that [24.400 --> 30.960] for some reason there are category of women who seem to have a much easier to attract men [31.600 --> 38.720] even when they're not physically anything special. We all come across those ladies and it's always [38.720 --> 45.040] a little mystery to what it is exactly that they do to attract those men and literally have men [45.040 --> 52.320] flocked around them. While let me tell you one thing, it's nothing more than simple body language. [52.320 --> 56.560] And I'm not going to talk about confidence in this video because actually that is a very [56.560 --> 62.880] important fundamental to body language and to attractive body language. But in this video, I want to [62.880 --> 70.000] share with you 10 sensual body language tips that definitely will work on every man out there. [70.000 --> 75.680] But since my school is focused on affluent men, this video will be dedicated to them. [75.680 --> 81.040] So let's start with number one. And I want to dive straight into the natural hips wing [81.120 --> 86.960] when you walk. Those women who know how to walk correctly in heels will actually have this [86.960 --> 93.920] naturally. Look at Samantha here in sex in the city. She's just going for a casual straw on the street [93.920 --> 101.360] and yet she has that natural hip swing in her steps. It's not forced, she's not overdoing it [101.360 --> 107.680] like a catwalk model. She's simply just strolling down the street being herself but being her [107.680 --> 113.760] attractive and feminine self. And that's exactly the type of walk we want to achieve when we're [113.760 --> 120.560] just walking casually past by a man. We want to have that natural hip action because the hips [120.560 --> 127.280] are very attractive to a man. And if you have that natural hip swing, he notices your hips and he [127.280 --> 133.360] gets attracted by it. I am going to show you an example of somebody who doesn't have that natural [133.440 --> 138.480] hip swing which is something we don't want to have. That is more of a masculine walk. [138.480 --> 144.880] But the whole purpose is to walk with elegance and grace yet with a big dose of femininity. [144.880 --> 153.040] I don't really think that walking in is a kind of diva, aggressive type of look at me here I am [153.040 --> 158.240] type of attitude. I don't necessarily think that that's going to score with majority type of [158.880 --> 164.800] men. You will definitely attract a specific type of man but I truly believe in kind of natural [164.800 --> 171.040] femininity which is usually the most attractive to most men. It's definitely easier to walk in [171.040 --> 176.400] heels and get this natural hip swing. You might feel a little awkward when you're doing it [176.400 --> 182.480] wearing sneakers but you can actually have a little slight touch of it. My advice is to put up a [182.480 --> 188.960] mirror in your house and walk towards the mirror and just look at your hip action and make sure [188.960 --> 194.400] it looks natural. Because ladies that's how you practice it. So just pretend you're this feminine [194.400 --> 201.120] catwalk model back home but reduce the aggression and just be kind of natural and you'll get it. [201.120 --> 207.920] Let's talk about number two, the soft but natural and neutral seating position. If you are for [207.920 --> 212.720] instance sitting down in a restaurant and you see somebody that you are interested in, there is [212.720 --> 218.080] of course a way of having a more open type of body language so that your body language becomes [218.080 --> 224.880] inviting to him and maybe he will walk over to you as a result. If you are sitting as a stiff kind of [226.880 --> 234.160] too elegant woman, if I can say that, then the chances are that he's not going to be really [234.160 --> 239.840] interested in walking up to you because you will sit there and look too pompous, too much of a [239.840 --> 247.040] diva, too stiff, too boring, maybe two arrogance and that's not going to work. If you on the other hand [247.040 --> 251.760] have too much attitude and you're there and you're sitting and somehow you know... [258.000 --> 262.960] You know what I mean ladies? Then you definitely not going to attract him because you are having [262.960 --> 270.000] this more aggressive tone in your language, more masculine. You are going to put him off and [270.000 --> 275.440] nobody wants to approach a woman who looks aggressive. You really have to soften it up, you have [275.440 --> 282.080] to tone it down if you are prone to those qualities and the whole purpose is to just be neutral. [282.080 --> 288.080] Another one that I would say is most common and that one is the little hunch, you know, the one [288.160 --> 297.120] who sits there like... You know ladies, when you are hunching yourself, when you're making [297.120 --> 304.480] yourself smaller, you are making yourself look kind of unworthy in a way. It makes you look a bit [304.480 --> 310.640] insecure and nobody is attracted to insecure ladies, even though a lot of us are, I've been [310.640 --> 315.040] eating the surface but it's not something we would like to show off. So it's really important not [315.040 --> 321.120] to signal this kind of insecurity in making yourself smaller, weak, you know, limp handshakes [321.120 --> 328.400] type of thing. No, we want to be... We want to be strong ladies but we want to be feminine and kind [328.400 --> 334.160] of have that perfect balance. Another one that is really bad by the way, if you are in a place, [334.160 --> 338.320] let's say in a bar, a restaurant, whatever, and you are sitting and you are all the time kind of [338.320 --> 344.960] looking around, almost like you're looking for somebody or you chasing something and that just looks [344.960 --> 350.800] desperate and men pick it up immediately. They really don't like desperate women so you really [350.800 --> 356.960] have to be clever in terms of how you look at people and also how much you cannot do it too much, [356.960 --> 365.040] you will just ruin it for you. So how should we sit? Natural, straight, elegant, normal, soft, [365.040 --> 370.800] not too stiff, not too aggressive, just sit like this, you know, just be yourself, be normal. [370.880 --> 377.200] Number three, let's talk about the smile and the smiles. Do you remember the smiles from [377.200 --> 383.520] Tyra Banks? I don't remember where she said this but I think it was Project Model or something [383.520 --> 390.480] like that, some really old TV series where she was coaching women to become models. So at a photo [390.480 --> 395.200] show she would say that if you're not going to smile with your mouth, make sure you smile with [395.280 --> 401.920] your eyes and then you kind of do this thing of smiling with your eyes basically and you end up [401.920 --> 407.760] looking much more effective and would much more kind of drama in you. But we do not want to [407.760 --> 413.280] over dramatize things when we want to send off the right signals to men. There is nothing more [413.280 --> 418.400] putting off than a woman who is very theatrical. We want to look natural, we want to look normal [419.360 --> 424.480] but I definitely think first of all the smile is essential, you have to have the smile, [424.480 --> 429.920] men love a woman who smiles. But at the other hand we cannot smile too much either because when we [429.920 --> 436.080] smile too often too much you almost look a little bit easy, a little bit desperate and a little bit [436.080 --> 441.200] like look at me, you know, all type of thing and that's not what we want to go, we want to be a [441.200 --> 446.720] little bit hard to get in the end of the day. So that's when the smiles come handy because you can [446.720 --> 452.880] actually give a smile to a man without actually giving him a smile if that makes sense. I'm talking [452.880 --> 458.960] about a smile with your eyes when you feel like you cannot really go all in on a regular smile. [458.960 --> 465.920] So if you are seeing somebody in the restaurant and instead of looking at him and you know, [465.920 --> 469.840] it's a bit too much sometimes, we wouldn't want to do that at all by the way. [470.800 --> 474.160] No, but instead you can just, you know, do a little smile. [489.840 --> 494.640] Do you see what I mean ladies? So unless the man is absolutely crazy in some way, [494.640 --> 501.600] most men who are decent and normal men, they want a woman who is a kind woman. And when you are [501.600 --> 507.280] having the smile or the smile in you, then you are just sending off your kindness. I definitely think [507.280 --> 513.920] that being a bitchy woman, it can definitely suit for some people, but I talk general rules now. [513.920 --> 519.840] And general rules might not be applicable in every scenario, which is why every dating advice [519.840 --> 524.080] always have to be taken with a little bit of pinch of salt because it always has to be [524.080 --> 530.800] applicable to your unique situation and person. So kind of a little FYI there. [530.800 --> 537.360] Now let's talk about number four and I want to talk to you about touching your hair gently. [537.360 --> 542.320] Okay, there is something that we do not want to do and that is having that nervous take, you know, [542.320 --> 549.520] when a girl is all the time doing this or like, I don't know, playing with her hair somehow, [549.520 --> 555.520] that is not what we want. We want to gently just drag a little bit of attention to our hair [555.520 --> 561.520] in the sense that it comes natural. You do it at a time where it's not about your hair. Let's say you [561.520 --> 568.160] are talking to somebody and as you are telling him something, you are gently just kind of doing [568.160 --> 574.000] something like that to kind of just drag his attention a little bit to you in that little more [574.000 --> 580.800] sensual way. And why the hair? Well, as I was talking about the hip action, hips are very [580.800 --> 586.240] important for men. They get attracted by it. Men also get attracted by hair on the women and I'm [586.240 --> 594.560] now talking hair in the wrong places. I'm talking about the hair on her head. So a little, you know, [596.160 --> 602.240] a little touch or something that is not too theatrical again, something, you know, gentle. You [602.240 --> 608.400] always want to have the gentle movements and you really want to do it in a situation where it's [608.400 --> 613.600] not like, okay, one, two, three, I'm going to do it now. You want to do it as a kind of, you know, [613.600 --> 621.360] you're talking about something that happened yesterday and yes, it was so difficult and yes, [621.360 --> 626.320] you know, that is kind of with the hair but just don't go into a nervous take and start playing [626.320 --> 632.000] with it or doing it a bit too often. The more you do it, the more awkward it's going to look like. [632.000 --> 638.400] So make sure you pick your battles and place them strategically. If this is a man where it's not [638.400 --> 644.800] awkward to have a little bit of physical contact, the number five is definitely worth doing. This [644.800 --> 649.360] would be a good strategy if you are for instance on a date or if you know a man as a friend but you [649.360 --> 654.320] want him to be your lover or your husband or whatever you want him to become. So physical touch, [654.320 --> 660.480] it is important and we bond with people through physical touch. Now, you don't want to be clingy [660.480 --> 666.400] and clinging on to somebody and neither do you want to be like a sleazy woman. After all, a man [666.400 --> 673.680] should be taking initiatives here but it's okay to quickly and gently and very kind of subconsciously [673.680 --> 681.840] and subtly make some small touches. Okay, let me give you an example. You're talking to him and [681.840 --> 688.160] you are sitting across each other. Let's say this hand is his. You are putting your hand gently on him [688.160 --> 693.600] as you say something. Two seconds maximum and then you remove it. Or if you're standing behind [693.600 --> 700.560] to him, you can easily place your hand on his back two seconds maximum and gently remove. So it's [700.560 --> 706.800] kind of like those type of subtle touches, light touches. You really want to also be light in [706.800 --> 713.120] your touch, not like that or you know nothing aggressive. We want to be soft and feminine and [713.120 --> 720.560] sensual. Sensuality is really important here but again, it cannot be theatrical. All he has to know [720.560 --> 727.040] is that it was by accident. You were talking about something. You really have to do it as you are [727.040 --> 734.400] talking, not when he is talking. Well, okay, in some situations, if he's being very expressive about [734.400 --> 739.840] something and you just do that gently, that can work but usually it's a safer bet to do it when [739.840 --> 745.120] you are talking. Because like that, you just did it, you know, you weren't really thinking about it [745.120 --> 751.440] and he probably picked it up somehow but it wasn't like in his face. I'm not touching you type of thing. [751.440 --> 758.240] All has to happen naturally. Remember, now let's stay with the physical touch a bit more and let's [758.240 --> 765.680] touch our own wrist ladies. Okay, so we do not want to go vulgar now. We want to do something that [765.680 --> 772.800] is very natural again and why touching the wrist? Well, first of all, it's a signal that when you're [772.800 --> 778.560] lifting up your hands, you have nothing to hide. It's almost like it signals a little bit of vulnerability [778.560 --> 784.560] but not in the sense of I'm so desperate, come and take me type of thing. No, what I'm trying to [784.560 --> 790.320] explain here is that when you are talking or as you're listening, you are simply just touching [790.320 --> 795.760] yourself gently, your own wrist. Nothing like you have a tick or something more like you just, [796.480 --> 801.600] it's something that you just do for a little split second or two, nothing more than that. [801.600 --> 806.240] Some women start playing with their bracelets. I don't really think that's a good idea because [806.240 --> 811.440] that can definitely come across as a nervous tick even though the action itself is kind of similar [811.440 --> 817.920] to this one. But yeah, if you are telling him about something and you just, yeah, just touch [817.920 --> 823.680] yourself a little bit gently like that. You would be surprised how your own gentle touch on yourself, [823.680 --> 830.880] actually, can play a very big impact on the man. He will pick up on small body language, things [830.880 --> 837.120] like that and he will look, start going in his hand about what that can mean, definitely. But as long [837.120 --> 843.520] as you play it out, out natural and not theatrical, then it won't look forced and he won't be [843.760 --> 848.000] awkward by it if that makes sense. By the way, ladies, you know, I have a free cheat sheet where [848.000 --> 854.560] you can meet affluent men. I have gathered over 210 places. If you visit millionaireplaces.com, [854.560 --> 860.000] you can get this free cheat sheet today. So don't miss that. Number seven, and all of you proper [860.000 --> 865.920] ladies, you might also try this one out even though it might come as a shock. But I'm here to share [865.920 --> 872.080] you my best tips. So here we go. When you are in communication with a man or even non-verbal [872.160 --> 878.160] communication, let's say somebody you haven't even spoken to. Maybe it's some stranger or something. [878.160 --> 886.720] Start thinking very central thoughts in his presence. But don't make any, you know, actions from it. [886.720 --> 892.480] Don't start putting on some vulgar show just because you are thinking some very naughty thoughts. [893.120 --> 900.720] No, I'm saying sit with that energy of sensuality and only you know what's happening inside your [900.720 --> 907.840] mind in that very second. But would you be surprised to know that actually men pick up on energy [907.840 --> 914.400] more than you would think. And this is a really good strategy too without having to express yourself [914.400 --> 921.920] in terms of verbally or doing something with your body. But just by sending out your thoughts [921.920 --> 928.480] and they're sensual and you're just kind of letting them all out and trust me, he will pick it up [928.480 --> 933.040] subconsciously. And it's very interesting. I've shared this tip to my students in my [933.040 --> 939.120] own finishing school and also to my friends. And I can tell you I've had quite a few who came back [939.120 --> 945.440] to me and said, do you know what happened? That stranger who the cute guy I saw, I did that what [945.440 --> 951.200] you said and it worked. He came up to me and we exchanged numbers. Thank you. You see, ladies, [951.200 --> 957.120] I have used this in the past. It has always worked. Whenever I kind of planned to see I want that man [957.200 --> 964.240] and I make sure to send out as much thoughts to it without showing it obviously. And somehow it [964.240 --> 972.080] always works. Number eight, please gently and elegantly your hand on your chest. Yes, you heard me [972.080 --> 981.360] right. I'm not saying do this. I'm saying, you know, no, did he say that? Really? Those quick little [981.360 --> 987.040] touches again on yourself, on body parts that you know he gets attracted to. It's absolutely [987.040 --> 992.960] okay to show him the way if you do it naturally and quickly and gently and always vote for [992.960 --> 999.280] amenity. That's the secret sauce in the School of Athlones. Number nine, and we need to think about [999.280 --> 1006.320] the tone of our voice. Now I'm not a voice coach and I'm not really a speech coach either. I have my [1006.320 --> 1012.480] own struggles, but if there's something I have definitely learned throughout the years, it's how do I [1012.480 --> 1017.520] sound when I'm a little bit more aggressive and how do I sound when I'm more happy and positive [1017.520 --> 1023.440] and more gentle. So it is very important to be a little bit more self-spoken with men. You don't [1023.440 --> 1029.280] want to be a little push over girl, but you also do know, want to be, you know, this aggressive woman [1029.280 --> 1035.760] who has the voice of a man almost. This is definitely not elegant. I will definitely say just try [1035.760 --> 1041.760] and find that balance somewhere in the middle. You might have to experiment with this at home. You might [1041.760 --> 1048.160] have to record yourself on camera or on the voice note on your iPhone, but definitely do things [1048.160 --> 1053.600] like this because you start becoming more aware with your own voice. Some of you have actually asked [1053.600 --> 1059.600] me if I have done any voice training and I haven't and maybe I should actually. I wouldn't mind, [1060.320 --> 1065.920] if anybody is a speech coach, definitely get in touch because I'm all about improving myself and [1065.920 --> 1070.880] transformation. That's something I'm very passionate about. But you can definitely improve your [1070.880 --> 1078.080] tone of voice simply by just doing this little tweak and it's about adjusting your level and it's [1078.080 --> 1084.880] also about becoming more aware with how you speak and kind of what tone you put on your words. So [1084.880 --> 1091.040] it's all about practice and awareness. Number 10 ladies and I want to tell you that of all the things [1091.040 --> 1097.440] that we have spoken about today, what's really important is to have, okay, I'm going to repeat myself. [1097.440 --> 1102.160] And that's why I had to put a number 10 on its own point because it is that important. Do [1102.160 --> 1110.080] everything with balance. Really do not overdo it. Do not underdo it either. Just tone it up if you [1110.080 --> 1116.080] need to tone it up. Tone it down if you need to tone things down. We are all very different and we [1116.080 --> 1121.200] all have our different issues. Some of you I know can be a little bit too much, can be a little bit too [1121.200 --> 1127.440] aggressive, too vulgar, too provocative, you know, nothing wrong with that. And if some of you feel [1127.440 --> 1132.880] hurt by this information, try and be a little bit more open-minded because ultimately we're not [1132.880 --> 1139.200] saying that you are bad or you are wrong. We're just saying that it's very easy to adopt bad habits [1139.200 --> 1145.760] today and what my job is here to basically help you overcome and fine tune certain things that can [1145.760 --> 1152.160] just be a little bit more fine tune and improved. And same to you if you are somebody who really needs [1152.160 --> 1160.000] to switch it up a bit, somebody perhaps who have zero sensuality or femininity in you, somebody [1160.000 --> 1166.720] who really needs to get out of your shell and be a woman and it's so beautiful to be a woman. [1166.720 --> 1173.600] And especially when you have all this power over all these men because men become weak with a [1173.600 --> 1179.120] feminine woman. You don't even have to be beautiful. If you have the right amount of dose of [1179.120 --> 1185.600] femininity, you will really rule this world because believe me, men will become your slaves. [1185.600 --> 1190.960] And that's the positive thing of being a woman. So make sure that we stick to our guns, we're [1190.960 --> 1196.960] feminine, we are gorgeous, we are amazing women and we're not running after men. Men are running [1196.960 --> 1203.280] after us because we know where the power lays and it is in our feminine energy in the end of the day. [1203.280 --> 1209.600] So having said ladies, I want you to check out the video. Things that Richmond noticed in the [1209.600 --> 1215.360] woman because that video is definitely an additional compliment to this video and I want you to [1215.360 --> 1221.520] really absorb everything that I say so that you are able to either attract the man you want [1221.520 --> 1227.920] in this new year or perhaps improve your existing relationship. Now I will see you in that video.