text: Im gonna add this song to our set tonight. Alright, this is the final days of Pattis first pregnancy. And I receive a surprise visit from my father at my home in LA. Now hed driven 500 miles unannounced to knock on my door, thats his style. So at 11 a.m. we sit Sunday dining room, and were nursing morning beers, thats his style. Thats my fathers breakfast of champions. When, my dad, never a talkative man, right, blurted out, Youve been very good to us. And I nodded that, that I had, ya know, and uh, and he says, And I wasnt very good to you. And, the room just, was, stood still. As to my shock, ya know, the acknowledgeable was being acknowledged, if I, if I didnt know better I wouldve sworn an apology of some sort was being made, and it was. Here in the last days before I was to become a father, my own father was visiting me to warn me of the mistakes that he had made, and to warn me not to make them with my own children. To release them from the chain of our sins, my fathers of mine and our fathers before, that they may be free, to make their own choices and to live their own lives. We are ghosts or we are ancestors in our childrens lives. We either lay our mistakes, our burdens upon them, and we haunt them, or we assist them in laying those old burdens down, and we free them from the chain of our own flawed behavior. And as ancestors, we walk alongside of them, and we assist them in finding their own way, and some transcendence. My father, on that day, was petitioning me, for an ancestral role in my life after being a ghost for a long long time. He wanted me to write a new end to our relationship, and he wanted me to be ready for the new beginning that I was about to experience. It was the greatest moment in my life with my dad, and it was all that I needed