text
stringlengths 4
128
|
---|
then because we ought to, and ultimately because we love |
the kind of life such obedience brings. Great suffering and |
great love are A.A.'s disciplinarians; we need no others. |
Troublemakers Can Be Teachers |
Few of us are any longer afraid of what any newcomer can do |
to our A.A. reputation or effectiveness. Those who slip, those |
with mental twists, those who rebel at the program, those |
who trade on the A.A. reputation -- all such persons seldom |
harm an A.A. group for long. |
Some of these have become our most respected and best |
loved. Some have remained to try our patience, sober |
nevertheless. Others have drifted away. We have begun to |
regard the troublesome ones not as menaces, but rather as |
our teachers. They oblige us to cultivate patience, tolerance, |
and humility. We finally see that they are only people sicker |
than the rest of us, that we who condemn them are the |
Pharisees whose false rightousness does our group the |
deeper spiritual damage. |
GRAPEVINE, AUGUST 1946 |
Gratitude Should Go Forward |
"Gratitude should go forward, rather than backward. |
"In other words, if you carry the message to still others, you |
will be making the best possible repayment for the help given |
to you." |
No satisfaction has been deeper and no joy greater than in a |
Twelfth Step job well done. To watch the eyes of men and |
women open with wonder as they move from darkness into |
light, to see their lives quickly fill with new purpose and |
meaning, and above all to watch them awaken to the |
presence of a loving God in their lives -- these things are the |
substance of what we receive as we carry A.A.'s message. |
Getting off a "Dry Bender" |
"Sometimes, we become depressed. I ought to know; I have |
been a champion dry-bender case myself. While the surface |
causes were a part of the picture -- trigger-events that |
precipitated depression -- the underlying causes, I am |
satisfied, ran much deeper. |
"Intellectually, I could accept my situation. Emotionally, I |
could not. |
"To these problems, there are certainly no pat answers. But |
part of the answer surely lies in the constant effort to |
practice all of A.A.'s Twelve Steps." |
In God's Economy |
"In God's economy, nothing is wasted. Through failure, we |
learn a lesson in humility which is probably needed, painful |
though it is." |
We did not always come closer to wisdom by reason of our |
virtues; our better understanding is often rooted in the pains |
of our former follies. Because this has been the essence of |
our individual experience, it is also the essence of our |
experience as a fellowship. |
Moral Responsibility |
"Some strongly object to the A.A. position that alcoholism is |
an illness. This concept, they feel, removes moral |
responsibility from alcoholics. As any A.A. knows, this is far |
from true. We do not use the concept of sickness to absolve |
our members from responsibility. On the contrary, we use |
the fact of fatal illness to clamp the heaviest kind of moral |
obligation onto the sufferer, the obligation to use A.A.'s |
Twelve Steps to get well. |
"In the early days of his drinking, the alcoholic is often guilty |
of irresponsibility. But once the time of compulsive drinking |
has arrived, he can't very well be held fully accountable for |
his conduct. He then has an obsession that condemns him to |
drink, and a bodily sensitivity to alcohol that guarantees his |
final madness and death. |
"But when he is made aware of this condition, he is under |
pressure to accept A.A.'s program of moral regeneration." |
TALK, 1960 |
Foundation for Life |
We discover that we receive guidance for our lives to just |
about the extent that we stop making demands upon God to |
give it to us on order and on our terms. |
In praying, we ask simply that throughout the day God place |
in us the best understanding of His will that we can have for |
the day, and that we be given the grace by which we may |
carry it out. |
There is a direct linkage among self-examination, meditation, |
and prayer. Taken separately, these practices can bring |
much relief and benefit. But when they are logically related |
and interwoven, the result is an unshakable foundation for |
life. |
TWELVE AND TWELVE |
"Not Allied with Any Sect..." |
"While A.A. has restored thousands of poor Christians to |
their churches, and has made believers out of atheists and |
agnostics, it has also made good A.A.'s out of those |
belonging to the Buddhist, Islamic, and Jewish faiths. For |
example, we question very much whether our Buddhist |
members in Japan would ever have joined this Society had |
A.A. officially stamped itself a strictly Christian movement. |
"You can easily convince yourself of this by imagining that |
A.A. started among the Buddhists and that they then told you |
you couldn't join them unless you become a Buddhist, too. If |
you were a Christian alcoholic under these circumstances, |
you might well turn your face to the wall and die." |
Suffering Transmuted |
"A.A. is no success story in the ordinary sense of the word. It |
is a story of suffering transmuted, under grace, into spiritual |
progress." |