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[0.000 --> 6.240]  My dear elegant ladies, there are certain essential body language secrets that I really advise
[6.240 --> 12.400]  you to know, especially if you want to have an affluent man and the competition is slightly
[12.400 --> 18.320]  tougher to get one, however it's not impossible. But with these body language secrets, you will
[18.320 --> 24.400]  definitely have an advantage. So let's find out what they are. Ladies, have you noticed that
[24.400 --> 30.960]  for some reason there are category of women who seem to have a much easier to attract men
[31.600 --> 38.720]  even when they're not physically anything special. We all come across those ladies and it's always
[38.720 --> 45.040]  a little mystery to what it is exactly that they do to attract those men and literally have men
[45.040 --> 52.320]  flocked around them. While let me tell you one thing, it's nothing more than simple body language.
[52.320 --> 56.560]  And I'm not going to talk about confidence in this video because actually that is a very
[56.560 --> 62.880]  important fundamental to body language and to attractive body language. But in this video, I want to
[62.880 --> 70.000]  share with you 10 sensual body language tips that definitely will work on every man out there.
[70.000 --> 75.680]  But since my school is focused on affluent men, this video will be dedicated to them.
[75.680 --> 81.040]  So let's start with number one. And I want to dive straight into the natural hips wing
[81.120 --> 86.960]  when you walk. Those women who know how to walk correctly in heels will actually have this
[86.960 --> 93.920]  naturally. Look at Samantha here in sex in the city. She's just going for a casual straw on the street
[93.920 --> 101.360]  and yet she has that natural hip swing in her steps. It's not forced, she's not overdoing it
[101.360 --> 107.680]  like a catwalk model. She's simply just strolling down the street being herself but being her
[107.680 --> 113.760]  attractive and feminine self. And that's exactly the type of walk we want to achieve when we're
[113.760 --> 120.560]  just walking casually past by a man. We want to have that natural hip action because the hips
[120.560 --> 127.280]  are very attractive to a man. And if you have that natural hip swing, he notices your hips and he
[127.280 --> 133.360]  gets attracted by it. I am going to show you an example of somebody who doesn't have that natural
[133.440 --> 138.480]  hip swing which is something we don't want to have. That is more of a masculine walk.
[138.480 --> 144.880]  But the whole purpose is to walk with elegance and grace yet with a big dose of femininity.
[144.880 --> 153.040]  I don't really think that walking in is a kind of diva, aggressive type of look at me here I am
[153.040 --> 158.240]  type of attitude. I don't necessarily think that that's going to score with majority type of
[158.880 --> 164.800]  men. You will definitely attract a specific type of man but I truly believe in kind of natural
[164.800 --> 171.040]  femininity which is usually the most attractive to most men. It's definitely easier to walk in
[171.040 --> 176.400]  heels and get this natural hip swing. You might feel a little awkward when you're doing it
[176.400 --> 182.480]  wearing sneakers but you can actually have a little slight touch of it. My advice is to put up a
[182.480 --> 188.960]  mirror in your house and walk towards the mirror and just look at your hip action and make sure
[188.960 --> 194.400]  it looks natural. Because ladies that's how you practice it. So just pretend you're this feminine
[194.400 --> 201.120]  catwalk model back home but reduce the aggression and just be kind of natural and you'll get it.
[201.120 --> 207.920]  Let's talk about number two, the soft but natural and neutral seating position. If you are for
[207.920 --> 212.720]  instance sitting down in a restaurant and you see somebody that you are interested in, there is
[212.720 --> 218.080]  of course a way of having a more open type of body language so that your body language becomes
[218.080 --> 224.880]  inviting to him and maybe he will walk over to you as a result. If you are sitting as a stiff kind of
[226.880 --> 234.160]  too elegant woman, if I can say that, then the chances are that he's not going to be really
[234.160 --> 239.840]  interested in walking up to you because you will sit there and look too pompous, too much of a
[239.840 --> 247.040]  diva, too stiff, too boring, maybe two arrogance and that's not going to work. If you on the other hand
[247.040 --> 251.760]  have too much attitude and you're there and you're sitting and somehow you know...
[258.000 --> 262.960]  You know what I mean ladies? Then you definitely not going to attract him because you are having
[262.960 --> 270.000]  this more aggressive tone in your language, more masculine. You are going to put him off and
[270.000 --> 275.440]  nobody wants to approach a woman who looks aggressive. You really have to soften it up, you have
[275.440 --> 282.080]  to tone it down if you are prone to those qualities and the whole purpose is to just be neutral.
[282.080 --> 288.080]  Another one that I would say is most common and that one is the little hunch, you know, the one
[288.160 --> 297.120]  who sits there like... You know ladies, when you are hunching yourself, when you're making
[297.120 --> 304.480]  yourself smaller, you are making yourself look kind of unworthy in a way. It makes you look a bit
[304.480 --> 310.640]  insecure and nobody is attracted to insecure ladies, even though a lot of us are, I've been
[310.640 --> 315.040]  eating the surface but it's not something we would like to show off. So it's really important not
[315.040 --> 321.120]  to signal this kind of insecurity in making yourself smaller, weak, you know, limp handshakes
[321.120 --> 328.400]  type of thing. No, we want to be... We want to be strong ladies but we want to be feminine and kind
[328.400 --> 334.160]  of have that perfect balance. Another one that is really bad by the way, if you are in a place,
[334.160 --> 338.320]  let's say in a bar, a restaurant, whatever, and you are sitting and you are all the time kind of
[338.320 --> 344.960]  looking around, almost like you're looking for somebody or you chasing something and that just looks
[344.960 --> 350.800]  desperate and men pick it up immediately. They really don't like desperate women so you really
[350.800 --> 356.960]  have to be clever in terms of how you look at people and also how much you cannot do it too much,
[356.960 --> 365.040]  you will just ruin it for you. So how should we sit? Natural, straight, elegant, normal, soft,
[365.040 --> 370.800]  not too stiff, not too aggressive, just sit like this, you know, just be yourself, be normal.
[370.880 --> 377.200]  Number three, let's talk about the smile and the smiles. Do you remember the smiles from
[377.200 --> 383.520]  Tyra Banks? I don't remember where she said this but I think it was Project Model or something
[383.520 --> 390.480]  like that, some really old TV series where she was coaching women to become models. So at a photo
[390.480 --> 395.200]  show she would say that if you're not going to smile with your mouth, make sure you smile with
[395.280 --> 401.920]  your eyes and then you kind of do this thing of smiling with your eyes basically and you end up
[401.920 --> 407.760]  looking much more effective and would much more kind of drama in you. But we do not want to
[407.760 --> 413.280]  over dramatize things when we want to send off the right signals to men. There is nothing more
[413.280 --> 418.400]  putting off than a woman who is very theatrical. We want to look natural, we want to look normal
[419.360 --> 424.480]  but I definitely think first of all the smile is essential, you have to have the smile,
[424.480 --> 429.920]  men love a woman who smiles. But at the other hand we cannot smile too much either because when we
[429.920 --> 436.080]  smile too often too much you almost look a little bit easy, a little bit desperate and a little bit
[436.080 --> 441.200]  like look at me, you know, all type of thing and that's not what we want to go, we want to be a
[441.200 --> 446.720]  little bit hard to get in the end of the day. So that's when the smiles come handy because you can
[446.720 --> 452.880]  actually give a smile to a man without actually giving him a smile if that makes sense. I'm talking
[452.880 --> 458.960]  about a smile with your eyes when you feel like you cannot really go all in on a regular smile.
[458.960 --> 465.920]  So if you are seeing somebody in the restaurant and instead of looking at him and you know,
[465.920 --> 469.840]  it's a bit too much sometimes, we wouldn't want to do that at all by the way.
[470.800 --> 474.160]  No, but instead you can just, you know, do a little smile.
[489.840 --> 494.640]  Do you see what I mean ladies? So unless the man is absolutely crazy in some way,
[494.640 --> 501.600]  most men who are decent and normal men, they want a woman who is a kind woman. And when you are
[501.600 --> 507.280]  having the smile or the smile in you, then you are just sending off your kindness. I definitely think
[507.280 --> 513.920]  that being a bitchy woman, it can definitely suit for some people, but I talk general rules now.
[513.920 --> 519.840]  And general rules might not be applicable in every scenario, which is why every dating advice
[519.840 --> 524.080]  always have to be taken with a little bit of pinch of salt because it always has to be
[524.080 --> 530.800]  applicable to your unique situation and person. So kind of a little FYI there.
[530.800 --> 537.360]  Now let's talk about number four and I want to talk to you about touching your hair gently.
[537.360 --> 542.320]  Okay, there is something that we do not want to do and that is having that nervous take, you know,
[542.320 --> 549.520]  when a girl is all the time doing this or like, I don't know, playing with her hair somehow,
[549.520 --> 555.520]  that is not what we want. We want to gently just drag a little bit of attention to our hair
[555.520 --> 561.520]  in the sense that it comes natural. You do it at a time where it's not about your hair. Let's say you
[561.520 --> 568.160]  are talking to somebody and as you are telling him something, you are gently just kind of doing
[568.160 --> 574.000]  something like that to kind of just drag his attention a little bit to you in that little more
[574.000 --> 580.800]  sensual way. And why the hair? Well, as I was talking about the hip action, hips are very
[580.800 --> 586.240]  important for men. They get attracted by it. Men also get attracted by hair on the women and I'm
[586.240 --> 594.560]  now talking hair in the wrong places. I'm talking about the hair on her head. So a little, you know,
[596.160 --> 602.240]  a little touch or something that is not too theatrical again, something, you know, gentle. You
[602.240 --> 608.400]  always want to have the gentle movements and you really want to do it in a situation where it's
[608.400 --> 613.600]  not like, okay, one, two, three, I'm going to do it now. You want to do it as a kind of, you know,
[613.600 --> 621.360]  you're talking about something that happened yesterday and yes, it was so difficult and yes,
[621.360 --> 626.320]  you know, that is kind of with the hair but just don't go into a nervous take and start playing
[626.320 --> 632.000]  with it or doing it a bit too often. The more you do it, the more awkward it's going to look like.
[632.000 --> 638.400]  So make sure you pick your battles and place them strategically. If this is a man where it's not
[638.400 --> 644.800]  awkward to have a little bit of physical contact, the number five is definitely worth doing. This
[644.800 --> 649.360]  would be a good strategy if you are for instance on a date or if you know a man as a friend but you
[649.360 --> 654.320]  want him to be your lover or your husband or whatever you want him to become. So physical touch,
[654.320 --> 660.480]  it is important and we bond with people through physical touch. Now, you don't want to be clingy
[660.480 --> 666.400]  and clinging on to somebody and neither do you want to be like a sleazy woman. After all, a man
[666.400 --> 673.680]  should be taking initiatives here but it's okay to quickly and gently and very kind of subconsciously
[673.680 --> 681.840]  and subtly make some small touches. Okay, let me give you an example. You're talking to him and
[681.840 --> 688.160]  you are sitting across each other. Let's say this hand is his. You are putting your hand gently on him
[688.160 --> 693.600]  as you say something. Two seconds maximum and then you remove it. Or if you're standing behind
[693.600 --> 700.560]  to him, you can easily place your hand on his back two seconds maximum and gently remove. So it's
[700.560 --> 706.800]  kind of like those type of subtle touches, light touches. You really want to also be light in
[706.800 --> 713.120]  your touch, not like that or you know nothing aggressive. We want to be soft and feminine and
[713.120 --> 720.560]  sensual. Sensuality is really important here but again, it cannot be theatrical. All he has to know
[720.560 --> 727.040]  is that it was by accident. You were talking about something. You really have to do it as you are
[727.040 --> 734.400]  talking, not when he is talking. Well, okay, in some situations, if he's being very expressive about
[734.400 --> 739.840]  something and you just do that gently, that can work but usually it's a safer bet to do it when
[739.840 --> 745.120]  you are talking. Because like that, you just did it, you know, you weren't really thinking about it
[745.120 --> 751.440]  and he probably picked it up somehow but it wasn't like in his face. I'm not touching you type of thing.
[751.440 --> 758.240]  All has to happen naturally. Remember, now let's stay with the physical touch a bit more and let's
[758.240 --> 765.680]  touch our own wrist ladies. Okay, so we do not want to go vulgar now. We want to do something that
[765.680 --> 772.800]  is very natural again and why touching the wrist? Well, first of all, it's a signal that when you're
[772.800 --> 778.560]  lifting up your hands, you have nothing to hide. It's almost like it signals a little bit of vulnerability
[778.560 --> 784.560]  but not in the sense of I'm so desperate, come and take me type of thing. No, what I'm trying to
[784.560 --> 790.320]  explain here is that when you are talking or as you're listening, you are simply just touching
[790.320 --> 795.760]  yourself gently, your own wrist. Nothing like you have a tick or something more like you just,
[796.480 --> 801.600]  it's something that you just do for a little split second or two, nothing more than that.
[801.600 --> 806.240]  Some women start playing with their bracelets. I don't really think that's a good idea because
[806.240 --> 811.440]  that can definitely come across as a nervous tick even though the action itself is kind of similar
[811.440 --> 817.920]  to this one. But yeah, if you are telling him about something and you just, yeah, just touch
[817.920 --> 823.680]  yourself a little bit gently like that. You would be surprised how your own gentle touch on yourself,
[823.680 --> 830.880]  actually, can play a very big impact on the man. He will pick up on small body language, things
[830.880 --> 837.120]  like that and he will look, start going in his hand about what that can mean, definitely. But as long
[837.120 --> 843.520]  as you play it out, out natural and not theatrical, then it won't look forced and he won't be
[843.760 --> 848.000]  awkward by it if that makes sense. By the way, ladies, you know, I have a free cheat sheet where
[848.000 --> 854.560]  you can meet affluent men. I have gathered over 210 places. If you visit millionaireplaces.com,
[854.560 --> 860.000]  you can get this free cheat sheet today. So don't miss that. Number seven, and all of you proper
[860.000 --> 865.920]  ladies, you might also try this one out even though it might come as a shock. But I'm here to share
[865.920 --> 872.080]  you my best tips. So here we go. When you are in communication with a man or even non-verbal
[872.160 --> 878.160]  communication, let's say somebody you haven't even spoken to. Maybe it's some stranger or something.
[878.160 --> 886.720]  Start thinking very central thoughts in his presence. But don't make any, you know, actions from it.
[886.720 --> 892.480]  Don't start putting on some vulgar show just because you are thinking some very naughty thoughts.
[893.120 --> 900.720]  No, I'm saying sit with that energy of sensuality and only you know what's happening inside your
[900.720 --> 907.840]  mind in that very second. But would you be surprised to know that actually men pick up on energy
[907.840 --> 914.400]  more than you would think. And this is a really good strategy too without having to express yourself
[914.400 --> 921.920]  in terms of verbally or doing something with your body. But just by sending out your thoughts
[921.920 --> 928.480]  and they're sensual and you're just kind of letting them all out and trust me, he will pick it up
[928.480 --> 933.040]  subconsciously. And it's very interesting. I've shared this tip to my students in my
[933.040 --> 939.120]  own finishing school and also to my friends. And I can tell you I've had quite a few who came back
[939.120 --> 945.440]  to me and said, do you know what happened? That stranger who the cute guy I saw, I did that what
[945.440 --> 951.200]  you said and it worked. He came up to me and we exchanged numbers. Thank you. You see, ladies,
[951.200 --> 957.120]  I have used this in the past. It has always worked. Whenever I kind of planned to see I want that man
[957.200 --> 964.240]  and I make sure to send out as much thoughts to it without showing it obviously. And somehow it
[964.240 --> 972.080]  always works. Number eight, please gently and elegantly your hand on your chest. Yes, you heard me
[972.080 --> 981.360]  right. I'm not saying do this. I'm saying, you know, no, did he say that? Really? Those quick little
[981.360 --> 987.040]  touches again on yourself, on body parts that you know he gets attracted to. It's absolutely
[987.040 --> 992.960]  okay to show him the way if you do it naturally and quickly and gently and always vote for
[992.960 --> 999.280]  amenity. That's the secret sauce in the School of Athlones. Number nine, and we need to think about
[999.280 --> 1006.320]  the tone of our voice. Now I'm not a voice coach and I'm not really a speech coach either. I have my
[1006.320 --> 1012.480]  own struggles, but if there's something I have definitely learned throughout the years, it's how do I
[1012.480 --> 1017.520]  sound when I'm a little bit more aggressive and how do I sound when I'm more happy and positive
[1017.520 --> 1023.440]  and more gentle. So it is very important to be a little bit more self-spoken with men. You don't
[1023.440 --> 1029.280]  want to be a little push over girl, but you also do know, want to be, you know, this aggressive woman
[1029.280 --> 1035.760]  who has the voice of a man almost. This is definitely not elegant. I will definitely say just try
[1035.760 --> 1041.760]  and find that balance somewhere in the middle. You might have to experiment with this at home. You might
[1041.760 --> 1048.160]  have to record yourself on camera or on the voice note on your iPhone, but definitely do things
[1048.160 --> 1053.600]  like this because you start becoming more aware with your own voice. Some of you have actually asked
[1053.600 --> 1059.600]  me if I have done any voice training and I haven't and maybe I should actually. I wouldn't mind,
[1060.320 --> 1065.920]  if anybody is a speech coach, definitely get in touch because I'm all about improving myself and
[1065.920 --> 1070.880]  transformation. That's something I'm very passionate about. But you can definitely improve your
[1070.880 --> 1078.080]  tone of voice simply by just doing this little tweak and it's about adjusting your level and it's
[1078.080 --> 1084.880]  also about becoming more aware with how you speak and kind of what tone you put on your words. So
[1084.880 --> 1091.040]  it's all about practice and awareness. Number 10 ladies and I want to tell you that of all the things
[1091.040 --> 1097.440]  that we have spoken about today, what's really important is to have, okay, I'm going to repeat myself.
[1097.440 --> 1102.160]  And that's why I had to put a number 10 on its own point because it is that important. Do
[1102.160 --> 1110.080]  everything with balance. Really do not overdo it. Do not underdo it either. Just tone it up if you
[1110.080 --> 1116.080]  need to tone it up. Tone it down if you need to tone things down. We are all very different and we
[1116.080 --> 1121.200]  all have our different issues. Some of you I know can be a little bit too much, can be a little bit too
[1121.200 --> 1127.440]  aggressive, too vulgar, too provocative, you know, nothing wrong with that. And if some of you feel
[1127.440 --> 1132.880]  hurt by this information, try and be a little bit more open-minded because ultimately we're not
[1132.880 --> 1139.200]  saying that you are bad or you are wrong. We're just saying that it's very easy to adopt bad habits
[1139.200 --> 1145.760]  today and what my job is here to basically help you overcome and fine tune certain things that can
[1145.760 --> 1152.160]  just be a little bit more fine tune and improved. And same to you if you are somebody who really needs
[1152.160 --> 1160.000]  to switch it up a bit, somebody perhaps who have zero sensuality or femininity in you, somebody
[1160.000 --> 1166.720]  who really needs to get out of your shell and be a woman and it's so beautiful to be a woman.
[1166.720 --> 1173.600]  And especially when you have all this power over all these men because men become weak with a
[1173.600 --> 1179.120]  feminine woman. You don't even have to be beautiful. If you have the right amount of dose of
[1179.120 --> 1185.600]  femininity, you will really rule this world because believe me, men will become your slaves.
[1185.600 --> 1190.960]  And that's the positive thing of being a woman. So make sure that we stick to our guns, we're
[1190.960 --> 1196.960]  feminine, we are gorgeous, we are amazing women and we're not running after men. Men are running
[1196.960 --> 1203.280]  after us because we know where the power lays and it is in our feminine energy in the end of the day.
[1203.280 --> 1209.600]  So having said ladies, I want you to check out the video. Things that Richmond noticed in the
[1209.600 --> 1215.360]  woman because that video is definitely an additional compliment to this video and I want you to
[1215.360 --> 1221.520]  really absorb everything that I say so that you are able to either attract the man you want
[1221.520 --> 1227.920]  in this new year or perhaps improve your existing relationship. Now I will see you in that video.